I'm not sure... what are your opinions on that?
We all fantasise. Many of us like to use our imagination and role play. All of us feel attracted to other people besides our partners. It doesn't stop us from loving them. We may be human beings but we are animals too, with impulses.
Think of lucid dreaming as active imagination. Sex with strangers in lucid dreams may even help you to remain faithful and may even spice up your real sex life. You may learn a few tricks, boost your motivation for sexual creativity and wow your wife in bed.
That's my opinion anyway and I'm also married. I've been with my wife for ten years too.
If you FEEL guilty than you are. If not, than you aren't.
But experiencing a sexual encounter in a dream whether lucid or not... isn't it just vivid porn really? It means nothing. And there is no reason to feel guilty because our minds are very simple and 'cave-man-like' in regular, unconscious dreams and sometimes we can't help it. I believe love for your wife never extinguishes that internal cave man desire and only if you constantly, actively pursue that in your lucid, conscious dreams do you need to question yourself and your faithfulness.
But also a dream-sexual-encounter never extinguishes your love for your wife either. They are two separate things.
So in my opinion it is not unfaithful, and if your wife had a sexual lucid dream about a man would you be concerned? Hey, it happens and it's just a dream. We are only human!
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