It's up to Rebecca.
She said keep it civil and that is all.
I agree, it has gone off the diving board and into the deep end.
(Where do I come up with these Dr. Phil sayings!? DC's talk to me that way and I have embraced it.... ANYWAY...)
I think it HAS been civil mostly.
But, there is no winner and no reward.
Philosophers have discussed this for the ages.
I'm not saying it's a waste of time. It's always a good time to discuss afterlife.
But there is no right or wrong and you succumb to the gravity of the afterlife-dilemma-black-hole, spiral.
And there is no escape for any 'winner' or 'loser' and no rewards. Only hurt and confusion.
If you do continue this, and I encourage it, just keep that in mind. As long as we are alive, this will be an issue and should never be ignored. But just keep this in mind: YOU CAN'T WIN!
Say your peace and walkaway.
We all have the wool pulled over our eyes, but turtleneck sweaters are so damn comfortable.