HAGART wrote:taniaaust1 wrote:so far have been unsuccessful at going all the way during a LD. When I get too excited it wakes me up.
Me too most of the time. (But not always....)
They tend to morph into inanimate objects for me a lot when it gets hot and heavy. Don't know why.
I'm not afraid to talk about this, but I'll leave out the details.
Does your EX ever speak? Maybe you have a reoccurring dream character and you just didn't know it. Try talking to him and see what he says. You can still do this, that and the other too.... But it's not actually your EX so you may channel your subconscious through him. (Just a thought.)
Interesting that yours morph into inanimate objects (my mind can take a guess of things they could inanimate into lol).
Good question you just asked there, as I bring the ex into the dream for that touch reason and it wasnt to chit chat to him as such, so I've never thought about having a convo with him. ( that makes me sound bad if this wasnt a dream).
He is quite capable of making normal noises thou at the times one would expect (he groaned at me in displeasure when I walked off on him second time lol) , I can only assume he can speak too (maybe he did but I dont remember as I never paid any attention at all to that). He appears so so like my ex in his mannerism etc.
I havent really thought of him being a reoccurring DC before as he's one I purposely bring into the dream by willing him there and not one which ever has just appeared in my dreams randomly himself just like I could bring anything into a dream by thought.
Anyway, you have me now real curious what he would speak like if I spoke to him properly rather just telling him what I want and him doing it eg can you touch my skin, touch my breasts. (I dont treat my DCs like real people even if they appear like real people). Next time I have a LD and need to stabilize and bring him in, I'll talk to him (he's not too hard to bring in if Im desperate to stabilize as I think my need to have him there in that case, makes it easier to bring him in).