nesgirl wrote:Okay but I still believe that both genders need to be treated equally, and am going to pursue that as much as possible.
nesgirl wrote:I hardly hear of asexual guys complaining that females are hitting on them. While I will admit some females are guilty of that, that doesn't happen nearly as often on the other side of the coin.
nesgirl wrote:Actually this is more aimed at the crazed romantic guys, not guys in general, in case that wasn't obvious (and yes I feel the exact same way about crazed romantic females). I don't believe all guys are like this, and the ones who aren't too focused on that obviously are very easy to get along with and communicate with. Recall I said before that if there was more aromance in this world it society a much friendlier place and everyone would get along a lot better.
And as for discomfort, there is anti-romantic discomfort as well, and both genders are equally responsible for that, specifically many religions make me very uncomfortable with that, saying I am going to hades because I refuse to date and refuse to get married. And they say that aromance is evil
I, too, hold a general discomfort with romance. The difference between us, I think, is that I recognize this disposition to be a psychological defect--perhaps even a pathology--and I strive to purge myself of it.
nesgirl wrote:Actually that is how it works in nature. More often in nature with most animals, the females are usually very picky and selective, and the guys usually have to make a huge effort to try to win over a female. Sometimes it's to the point where they are even killing each other. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L54bxmZy_NE "Oh dear her departure says it all!" LOL!!
Very true. But in nature there's also indiscriminate murder, rape, theft, you name it. Nature is the grounds on which we can explain why crime naturally occurs and humans are instinctively drawn to do certain things. But I like to think that we homo sapiens have evolved extensively enough to sort of transcend our basic primal natures and rise to something higher.
nesgirl wrote:Let me remind you that you 2 got way to hypercritical of me when I posted my EEG Lucid Dream before. I no longer feel comfortable posting anything anymore because you made it sound like I was completely dishonest about having that Lucid Dream (it's bad enough that my brother says that because he doesn't even believe in Lucid Dreams and if I say anything he says I am being a bad example on his children) . I no longer feel comfortable about posting some of my Lucid Dreams because of it. I've had a literal history from that, and gotten into trouble for talking about some of my Lucid Dreams in the past, and now I have to literally keep them a huge secret in order to keep myself from getting into trouble or banned. It is just like history for me to get into trouble or get kicked out of clubs just for talking about or over a Lucid Dream.
By all means, share whatever you like. I don't believe in censorship of any kind. As I've stated before, I will never criticize you for saying something--instead, I'll criticize what you said.