Hello Nala
What are your inspirations for using lucid dreaming? Is it films you've seen, or stuff you've seen on the web?
My advice to you firstly would be to really take the focus off lucid dreaming and start to really enjoy your dreams, look forward to going to bed to experience dreaming. Listen to your dreams, when you wake up from a dream, notice how you felt, what images you saw, colours and sounds. Keep a diary by your bed and write down your dream memories. Lucid dreaming is exciting, but it is in no way a better way to dream, just something that adds to your experience of dreaming. And one way to become lucid (perhaps spontaneously at first) is to really get into noticing all your dreams. Even the bad ones, as they can not harm you. In fact if you ever have a bad dream, by writing it down and exploring it a little, you can learn to face the scary stuff in dreams. When we keep diaries of our dreams, we can learn to notice what are known as 'dream signs'. Dream signs are images/pictures or things that happen in dreams again and again. When you read your diary back, you might notice things that are in common. Again, how do these reoccurring patterns make you feel? When you are awake, try to go back and imagine feeling the dream again.
You have plenty of time. Enjoy dream world. There are plenty of things to learn along the way. See it as a journey.
Just to add, when i was at school your age, i used to read other people's dreams for fun! It was a way to get friends interested. They'd say, 'I had this realllllyyy weird dream last night...' and I'd get them to tell me and for fun try to interpret it. I became quite well known for it, even if they thought i was a little bit of a weirdo!!!
