Can you lose energy in a dream, lucid or not? My sister says that I would wake up tired after dreaming. Waddo you think?
Rebecca says: It's a myth that you could exhaust yourself having a great big run in a lucid dream. After all, your real muscles are paralyzed during sleep. Your body isn't really running or burning up energy. So why would you feel depleted?
So, in terms of physical energy depletion, there's really no logic to this argument. But what about dreams being mentally or emotionally tiring?
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My intuitive response is no - and that's based on my 17 years of personal experience. Lucid dreams aren't tiring for me at all. They make me feel invigorated and I often have more energy the next morning because I'm on a natural high, reveling in my latest lucid dream insights. But perhaps I'm not typical.
Types of Dreams
Digging a little deeper, I asked myself: when do I feel tired when I wake up?
Obviously not having enough sleep is one problem. A night of heavy drinking or taking certain medications can also take their toll on sleep quality.
But what of dreaming? When I have multiple, rapid-fire nightmares or just very busy non-lucid dreams which go on for a long time, I wake up frazzled. If they are emotional or anxiety-producing I'll wake up feeling mentally drained.
These sorts of dreams are much more common in children, teenagers and young adults - probably because they are generally are undergoing the most life changes and psychological adjustments. So, these types of hectic, non-lucid dreams can be tiring and drain you of energy emotionally, particularly when they are mentally disturbing.
Ironically, becoming lucid during these highly emotional dreams is the solution for me. If I'm having a nightmare, I'm likely to become lucid, at which point I can instantly dispel the anxiety and face down my fears.
Equally, a very busy and intense string of non-lucid dreams can be like a noisy orchestra with no conductor - very tiring to experience as an unconscious dreamer. But when you become lucid, your consciousness brings harmony to the orchestra, and turns that thing of pandemonium into crystal clear beauty.
So, far from being tiring, lucidity can give way to mental clarity and peace in your most emotionally tiring dreams.
Healthy sleepers undergo a process called sleep paralysis every night, from the moment you fall asleep to the moment you wake up in the morning, and all the little disturbances in between. Your muscles are waxy and unresponsive whether you are in deep sleep, or a lighter REM sleep, or in a lucid dream.
One of the main goals of sleep is to heal and rest the body. So it would be a serious flaw in the mechanism if we had the ability to undermine that process. Examples of such flaws include sleep disorders like sleepwalking, REM behavior disorder and restless leg syndrome.
Now, I can think of two specific situations where lucid dreams can cause sleep loss or impaired quality of sleep. Let's explore those.
1. Pushing Too Hard
Tiredness can be caused indirectly by your efforts to induce a lucid dream. There are lucid dreaming techniques which involve manipulating your sleep cycles to provoke a lucid dream (such as Wake Back to Bed or the Cycle Adjustment Technique). These are to be used wisely.
For instance, if you have a hectic life and already have to get up at 6am to go to a stressful job, I wouldn't recommend waking yourself an hour earlier to practice lucid dreaming. If you suspect you aren't getting enough sleep (which is 7-9 hours for most people) then you are probably already sleep deprived. These lucid dreaming techniques will only exacerbate that problem.
2. Perma-Lucid Dreamers
A very small fraction of the population are "perma-lucid dreamers". They lucid dream every night, and have been doing so for as long as they can remember. Some of them don't even know that conscious dreaming is special - they assume everyone does it. They just started lucid dreaming naturally as children and it became the permanent way of dreaming, to retain a waking level of consciousness during their night-time hallucinations.
These people often complain of feeling engulfed by their lucid dreams, unable to shut their brains down at night. They say lucid dreams are tiring. So what's going on here?
This is a truly under-researched area so we don't have any good scientific answers. True perma-lucid dreamers are always conscious during their dreams - but why would 100 extra minutes of consciousness at night make them feel so frazzled? Is it the sheer larger-than-life lucid dream intensity? Possibly, but I can't say I've ever felt negatively overwhelmed by lucidity like that. Perhaps there is an underlying sleep disorder to be identified here.
If the effect is purely sleep lost to a conscious dream then we're talking about a difference of 60-90 minutes of lost sleep compared to a casual lucid dreamer, or 100 minutes compared to a non-lucid dreamer.
That's because REM (dream) sleep is divided to a handful of phases totaling about 100 minutes every night. Your dreams are scattered, with the longest ones later in the morning. In no way do you dream for 8 hours every night.
If you can shed some light on the why some perma-lucid dreamers wake up feeling tired, please share your thoughts at the lucid dreaming forum or in the comments below. I am not a perma-lucid dreamer myself and would love to have more insight.
Lucid dreams are beautiful and joyful and inspiring affairs which give us positive, life-changing experiences - in contrast to the mental chaos of anxiety dreams or nightmares. Could they also be tiring? It's not a complaint I hear from your typical lucid dreamer. Rather, it's a projected worry from people who have never lucid dreamed before.
This makes it one of the great misconceptions about lucid dreaming.
If we're completely honest, lucid dreaming isn't really known for being the most social of interests. In fact, often it's a lone pursuit - just you, your dream journal and the landscape of your mind. But this technique called PAL (or Partner Assisted Lucidity) breaks down that wall and turns lucid dream exploration into a social event.
Members of our lucid dream forum have been asking how to create dream characters in lucid dreams. The most common problem is having characters who look nothing like they should. Or they seem disinterested in your company. Or they fail to show up on command altogether. So, how to combat this? It's a matter of finding creative solutions that bypass logical expectations.
To lucid dream, I recommend being able to remember at least one vivid dream per night. That will boost your self awareness in dreams (making lucidity more likely) and also means you can actually remember your lucid dreams. Which is nice. Here are four detailed tips on how to remember your dreams more frequently. And if you don't think you dream at all - trust me, you almost certainly do. It takes an extraordinarily rare sleep disorder to deprive someone of dream sleep.
It is estimated that these wise and wily Indians have been using mugwort in their healing and ritual practices for 13,000 years, where it is known as the ‘dream sage’. They use the herb to promote good dreams, which they consider an essential aspect of normal human functioning! But that’s not all...
Silene Capensis has been used for millennia by the Xhosa shaman of the river valleys in the eastern cape of South Africa, where it is known as Undela Ziimhlophe or 'white paths'. It's fragrant white flowers open only at night, when they emit a fragrant and almost hypnotising aroma. Also known as African Dream Herb or Ubulawu, Silene Capensis induces spectacularly vivid dreams - yet has never entered the mainstream and remains a fringe taste within western culture.
Experts agree that everyone is capable of having lucid dreams. Dreaming itself is a normal function of the mind. We all dream every night, even if we don't remember. And we all achieve conscious awareness while awake every single day. So what does it mean to combine these states? Why, the amazing ability to have conscious - or lucid - dreams. Sounds simple, doesn't it? So why do I keep hearing from people who say they can't achieve their first lucid dream?